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Sunday, December 30, 2012

Absence of discipline seeds endless violence ─ U.S. families, communities; U.S. foreign relations


 End year updates: Foreign wars in Middle East/South Central Asia, Africa; 
Excerpts from Why Americans cannot discipline their children
Editing, re-reporting, brief comment by 
Carolyn Bennett

Only America has gone directly from barbarism to degeneration without the usual interval of civilization

“Why Americans cannot discipline their children” and results of this failure
This is some of what John Fleming had to say.

“The American state together with private industry, especially ‘helping professions’ have usurped [parents’] authority in loco parentis, John Fleming writes, “thus empowering physicians, psychologists, judges, social workers, dentists and other health workers… ; and reducing people to parental incompetence.

The ultimate reason that Americans are unable to discipline their children is that they have no authority over them.

“American children run amok, throw tantrums in the ‘terrible twos’ and ‘fearsome fours,’ and commit indignities against their parents and maliciously disobey them … as to shock the rest of the world.”

Neglect

“Children’s actual socialization comes from the ever-present baby sitter television and from the school, neighborhood pals and their interaction at play.

Fleming laments his own observation. “Thousands of times [seeing] children crying and reaching out in misery and just begging for comfort and reassurance from their parents, who stand there helplessly as if paralyzed or moronic as to what to do; or they insensitively, without any insight, scold their offspring for being ‘cry babies.’”

Parent’s Roles

“Bewildered parents simply do not know what to do and the surfeit of advice from so-called experts, which has increased exponentially since 1945, has not at all ameliorated the problem.…”

Having “acquired a hands-off or laissez-faire creed regarding their children, … mothers and fathers …, American parents are reduced to their entertainers, meal tickets and gift givers. 

“In the United States the glorification of consumption and the warfare of status materialism see the parents constantly showering their ‘kids’ with presents ─ all too often in place of true love and affection.”

Mother scolds, Father escapes

“The mother resorts to [the shrew] and constant nagging to obtain minimal obedience from her children, while the deadbeat American husband and father emotionally abandons the family and takes little part in family life.

Parents do not guide, comfort, govern, teach, nurse, control, restrain or mentor their children, although they are fond of giving them a good teasing now and then.


U.S. homeless
American dream backfires: Absence of discipline seeds violence

“Being raised [as children] devoid of comforting, love, discipline, affection and physical caring (such as hugging, caressing, holding, breast-feeding, kissing, embracing and cuddling, of which American parents give their children so very little), Americans in their collective folly are frustrated, anxiety-ridden, insecure, enraged, angry, unhappy and selfish.

U.S.
endless violence
endless war dead
“Permissive child rearing, hardly part of a conspiracy, came into being willy-nilly, a result of purposeless historical forces, unplanned, non-divined, un-envisaged and non-teleological.

“The American ideology of wealth dating from early American history, roughly 1650, has had a secondary effect on the family that was unforeseen by “the ruling class or the ‘Founding Fathers’ or the intellectuals and illuminati or Tocqueville.”

“The ensuing hostile, violent and rancorous social scene, besides moral chaos, social disintegration, barratry [persistent incitement of litigation] and generational conflict, is remarkable for the unprecedented intensification of social conflict: … Can anyone therefore really wonder at ─

Waco
Ruby Ridge

Oklahoma City

Columbine

Virginia Tech

Aurora

Newtown?


MAJOR MASSACRES: 
U. S. VIOLENCE OVER HERE, OVER THERE

Waco 1993
WACO, TEXAS, ATTACK 1993

The Waco siege, also described as the ‘Waco massacre’ began February 28, 1993, when the United States Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms (ATF) accompanied by several members of the media, attempted to execute a search warrant at Mount Carmel Center ranch, a property of the religious sect Branch Davidians located in the community of Elk, Texas, nine miles (14 kilometers) east-northeast of Waco, Texas

The siege ended violently 50 days later on April 19, leaving 76 men, women and children dead. Among the dead was the sect leader, David Koresh

Weaver Family Home
Ruby Ridge 1992
RUBY RIDGE, IDAHO, ATTACK 1992

Randy Weaver refused to be an informant for the federal government and a deadly 1992 confrontation and siege that involved Weaver, his friend, Kevin Harris, and his family and agents of the United States Marshals Service and Federal Bureau of Investigation left Weaver's son Sammy, his wife Vicki, and Deputy U.S. Marshal William Francis Dega dead at Ruby Ridge, Idaho.

A 1994 Ruby Ridge Task Force report, in redacted form by Lexis Counsel Connect, raised questions about the conduct and policy of all the agencies involved in the Ruby Ridge, Idaho, attack: the FBI, USMS, the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives (ATF), and the United States Attorney's Office (USAO) for Idaho.

What had prompted the investigation and report was Weaver's attorney Gerry Spence's accusations of "criminal wrongdoing" against every agency involved in the incident.

OKLAHOMA BOMBING 1995

The Oklahoma City bombing was carried out by Timothy McVeigh, an American militia movement sympathizer and Gulf War veteran, who detonated an explosive-filled Ryder rental truck parked in front of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in downtown Oklahoma City on April 19, 1995. He was assisted in bomb preparation by co-conspirator Terry Nichols.
Virginia Tech
Faculty dead 1999

The bomb caused the deaths of 168 people among them 19 children, injuries to more than 680 people; and the destruction of or damage to hundreds of real estate and other material possessions.
  
COLUMBINE HIGH SCHOOL SHOOTING 1999

At Columbine High School in Columbine, Colorado, students Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold opened fire and 12 students and a teacher died in addition to the suicides of the assailants. Twenty-four others were injured.

In this April 20, 1999, incident, Harris and Klebold had reportedly started their rage in violence by planting two unexploded bombs in the school cafeteria; they then opened fire on the school population.

VIRGINIA TECH (COLLEGE) SHOOTING 2007

On the campus of Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University (Blacksburg, Virginia), shootings by Seung-Hui Cho, a student with a mental disorder, left 32 people (plus the suicide of the shooter) dead and 17 wounded. Others were injured trying to escape through the classroom windows. 
A funeral
Aurora 2012

COLORADO CINEMA SHOOTING 2012

During a July 20, 2012, midnight showing of “The Dark Knight Rises” at a cinema in Aurora, Colorado, a gunman dressed in tactical clothing sets off tear gas canisters and opens fire on the audience leaving 12 people dead and 58 injured. James Eagan Holmes is arrested.

Colorado gun sales spiked after the shooting; the number of background checks for people seeking to purchase a firearm in this state increased to 2,887, up 43 percent from the week before the incident. Gun sales increased in Washington, Florida, California, and Georgia as did political debates on gun control but a Pew Research Center survey suggested the incident had not changed Americans' views on the issue.

A funeral
Newtown 2012
CONNECTICUT ELEMENTARY SCHOOL SHOOTING 2012

At Newtown, Connecticut’s Sandy Hook Elementary School on December 14, 2012, a murder suicide occurred that left two people wounded and twenty children, six adult staff members plus the shooter, 20-year-old Adam Peter Lanza, dead.


END YEAR Miami Herald reports “2012’s top news: shootings, Hurricane Sandy, election and more”

Mass shootings: At a midnight showing of The Dark Knight Rises on July 20, a gunman opened fire on a theater full of moviegoers in Aurora, Colo., killing 12 people and injuring almost 60 others. Arrested and charged with the crime is James Eagan Holmes, who is awaiting trial. But Eagan’s act of terror was not to be the only one of 2012. On Dec. 14, Adam Lanza shot his way into Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn., and killed 20 children and six adults. Lanza, who died after shooting himself, killed his mother, a Sandy Hook teacher, before his rampage. The horrific attacks propelled the arguments for and against gun control to the forefront of American debate.  Miami Herald December 29, 2012, http://www.miamiherald.com/2012/12/29/3160550/2012s-top-news-shootings-hurricane.html


Major massacres abroad
Unchecked U.S. WAR, DEATH: 
Endless aggression

I-casualties reports
Coalition Military Fatalities by Year - Afghanistan
Year
US
UK
Other
Total
2001
12
0
0
12
2002
49
3
18
70
2003
48
0
10
58
2004
52
1
7
60
2005
99
1
31
131
2006
98
39
54
191
2007
117
42
73
232
2008
155
51
89
295
2009
317
108
96
521
2010
499
103
109
711
2011
418
46
102
566
2012
309
44
52
405
Total
2173
438
641
3252
http://icasualties.org/oef/


U.S. war
Afghan funeral
Press TV’s recent reports

AFGHANISTAN

The US-led war in Afghanistan, which has caused record-high civilian and military casualties, has become the longest military conflict in the American history.

The United States invaded Afghanistan in 2001 under the pretext of combating terrorism. The offensive removed the Taliban from power, but insecurity continues to rise across the country despite the presence of thousands of US-led soldiers.
Afghan homeless

Today in Afghanistan at least nine NATO fuel tankers were torched after a powerful bomb explosion rocked Jalalabad Airport in country's eastern province of Nangarhar Press TV reports. The incident occurred when a bomb planted in a fuel tanker detonated in a terminal near the airport, where NATO oil tankers were parked. http://www.presstv.ir/section/351020403.html

PAKISTAN

A recent report revealed that over 3,300 people, many of them women and children, were killed in U.S. drone attacks in Pakistan between June 2004 and September 2012.

U.S. drone
warfare on Pakistan
The United States also carries out drone strikes in Afghanistan, Yemen and Somalia.

Late last week four people died in another U.S. assassination drone attack in Pakistan's northwestern tribal belt near the Afghan border. The strike occurred on Thursday when missiles fired from U.S. drones hit a house in the town of Gurbuz, which lies southwest of Miranshah, the main town in North Waziristan tribal district. Two other people suffered injuries in Thursday's attack. http://www.presstv.ir/detail/2012/12/28/280570/us-drone-attack-kills-four-in-pakistan/


Yemenis protest
U.S. drone warfare
Breach of sovereignty
YEMEN

The United Nations has censured the U.S. drone attacks as targeted killings, stressing that the raids flout international law. Reports, however, say that the CIA is seeking to expand its covert drone attacks in Yemen.

On Friday Tens of thousands of Yemenis took to the streets in the northern city of Sa’ada to protest U.S. interference in their country’s internal affairs. The demonstrators accused the United States of hijacking their revolution by keeping in power some of the loyalists to the ousted dictator Ali Abdullah Saleh and granting the former ruler immunity under a power transition deal.  http://www.presstv.ir/detail/2012/12/28/280612/yemenis-rally-against-us-interference/

SYRIA
Pro-Assad rally
Syria

Officials at the Syrian capital Damascus have repeatedly charged that outlaws, saboteurs, and armed terrorists are the driving element behind the unrest and deadly violence. Since March 2011, Syria has been experiencing unrest. The Syrian government most recently has said the chaos in Syria is being orchestrated from outside the country and there are reports that a very large number of armed militants fighting the Syrian government are foreign nationals.

Today the U.S.-based historian Webster Griffin Tarpley tells Press TV, “If the Free Syrian Army, particularly if [Syria’s militia group Jabhat] al-Nusra gang of death squads should ever gain power over Syria or large parts of Syria, we would witness a colossal bloodbath” exceeding any in the current century. http://www.presstv.ir/detail/2012/12/30/280890/bloodbath-awaits-syria-under-militants/

AFRICA

The U.S. military and its main spy agency, the CIA, have regularly been involved in using pilotless assassination drones to bombard alleged al-Qaeda suspects and strongholds in Africa, the Middle East and Pakistan. Most of those killed by American terror drones, however, have reportedly been civilians.

The U.S. military has set up a plan to deploy troops and spies to African nations in a purported bid to counter what it describes as ‘a growing terrorist threat’ by the shadowy, Saudi-linked al-Qaeda terror franchise.

U.S. drone attacks
Somalis
“Nearly 4,000 U.S. soldiers from the Army’s Dagger Brigade are due to be dispatched ‘throughout Africa’ in ‘small teams’ beginning next spring to ‘train African troops on everything from logistics and marksmanship to medical care,’ major U.S. government-funded radio network NPR reports in a Tuesday broadcast.” The report also notes that “‘the Defense Intelligence Agency (DIA) is already placing more of its military spies in Africa.’”


Returning to Fleming’s theme, perhaps another truth is that children, the young really are obeying their parents. They are following their example of violence ─ as the first response, always, anywhere, any situation, any time. 

Sources and notes

“Why Americans cannot discipline their children” (John Fleming) December 21, 2012,
http://english.pravda.ru/opinion/columnists/21-12-2012/123261-americans_children-0/#

Quoted by Fleming: “America is the only nation in history which miraculously has gone directly from barbarism to degeneration without the usual interval of civilization” ─ Georges Clemenceau (ca. 1925)
http://english.pravda.ru/opinion/columnists/21-12-2012/123261-americans_children-0/#

John Fleming is the author of the book Word Power

Press TV online news 


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